What Makes Someone Want Their Ex Back After The Relationship Has Ended

I was reading an article online last week that stated when relationships end, someone almost always wants to get back together in the near future.  And this got me thinking about my past relationships and made me do a little soul searching about if this was true for me in the past.

And while I love my wife totally, I do remember a time or two when I was in this situation; the article made me start wonder why this was so.  Is it because the thought of never getting to see or be with your ex makes the person feel that they need their ex to survive?  Maybe the question comes down to some part of us feel that a failed relationship may look like a blemish on our relationship report card.  Or could it be that the love that was there is still there after the relationship has been axed?

And when I look at these three possibilities, I have to think that they all play a big part when someone realizes that they need to get their ex back.  I would like to hear some thoughts out there about what you think.  I look forward to your comments, and please make sure you keep your post relevant to the topic.

Regards

Doug

The First Steps to Healing a Relationship

By Sunny Hussain
Is your relationship in need of healing? Don't make your situation worse.

Take the first steps to healing a relationship, to ensure your continued happiness.

Healing is a must to maintain a happy and loving relationship. When your relationship is at it's best, everyone is happy and less stressed. Your mind will be free to focus on other things, which will make you more productive. Your health won't suffer from the constant feelings of lack and negativity.

Taking the first steps to healing a relationship can be very trying, but must be done if you want to live happily within your relationship. That's what everyone wants, right? I have never heard anyone say they want or like being in a miserable relationship.

When your relationship isn't up to par, you can feel weak and drained of energy, as much of your thinking is consumed by what is lacking or the faults in your relationship. This stress plays on your entire being, mentally, physically and spiritually.