It is normal for a couple to hit a rough patch in a marriage. And it seems that the man is always the one that needs the most help with reconciling with his wife. Here are the keys that I focus on in my sessions.
You should ask yourself the following questions.
- What went wrong in the marriage?
- Was she giving off signs that she was unhappy?
- What can I do to show her that I love her?
- What can I change about me to show her that I can change?
These are all very good questions that you can address to see what direction you need to take to resolve any marital issues that you both have.
Talk to her
It is amazing how powerful communicating with your wife can be. Most of the time marriages fail because there wasn't enough talking taking place and couples just fall out of touch with each other. This is a good time to open up the communication channels and show her that you are not afraid to sit down with her and talk seriously about your marriage.
Take her out on dates
The dating does not stop just because you are married. You both need your time alone away from the house and the kids to explore each other. And there is no better way to do this than going out on dates. If the kids are big enough get out for the weekend. This is a great way to get the passion back in your marriage.
Conclusion
Couples need to understand that repairing a troubled marriage takes a lot of hard work from both parties. And this extra work is going to pay off in the long run with you and your wife having a stronger marriage that is filled with love and compassion for each other.
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